Over the years I have noticed that nearly all marriages are either "made in heaven" or "in hell" with a few in between. The sad part is that each couple chooses which their marriage will be, no one else can make that choice for you. You decide how much time to spend on the relationship, how much love to give, how faithful to be, how to react to problems, etc. Often those who are unhappy look around for someone or something to blame, never realizing that it is their approach to the relationship and whatever problems assault it that dictates how happy or solid it is. If you want a happy marriage, it is up to both of you to make it that way. The rest of the world can interfere only if you let it.
Matthew 19:6 Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together let not man put asunder. |